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Reflections Upon Heading Home

My bag is packed, and shortly I’ll head out, flag down a taxi like the best of New Yorkers and head to the airport.  I still have the rest of July for the Sabbatical, and massive amounts of work to put what I’ve written and thought about during these weeks into a coherent form, useful to the church I serve, and perhaps to the church world at large.

One last walk in Central Park this morning helped me to see three things.

First, I accomplished a great deal on this time away.  I am rested, healthy, filled with the love of family and hugs from grandchildren and grateful for a sense of accomplishment for the work I was able to do.  I enjoyed seeing new sights, trying new foods, renewing deep family ties and old friendships.  Pretty wonderful.

Second, there will always be more to do, more to see, more to learn, more to experience and enjoy.  In some ways, I got a taste of infinity, a glimpse of God in being aware of how much I didn’t do, how much I don’t know, how much will always be left undone, untouched, not experienced or explored.  I find great comfort in my smallness, even as these were, for me, large travels.

Third, none of this time could have been possible without the incredible generosity of family, friends, and my church.  In nine weeks away, not one night was spent in a hotel, and 99% of my meals were eaten in the company of family and friends–and cooked by them as well.  One son’s frequent flier miles bought my airline tickets.  Family opened their homes, spare beds and couches, shared their bathrooms, and let me borrow their computers.   I’ve spent little–mostly on making sure meals had wine and children had gifts, plus local transportation costs in London and NYC.  Simply amazing.

I have this sense that I have been privileged to experience the best of the Kingdom of Heaven and wish to offer that to everyone I meet and encounter.  This is what changes the world.

I am one very fortunate woman.  Much has been given to me–and much is required of me.  May I be faithful in that holy responsibility.

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The Kingdom of Heaven and Heathrow Airport

Perhaps the kingdom of heaven is a bit like Heathrow Airport on Wednesday, June 27 .

On that day:

  • I fly from Heathrow to NYC, ending my extended sojourn in the UK, and beginning my reentry into the US.
  • My nephew flies from Heathrow to Los Angeles
  • My nephew’s mother-in-law lands at Heathrow from Florida.
  • My son flies in from the Middle East mid-morning for two meetings at Heathrow and then back out again that evening for Berlin.
  • My daughter-in-law’s brother lands at Heathrow from Bogotá, Colombia for the funeral of their sister’s father-in-law.

Chances are none of us will see each other, although my nephew and I are trying to work out a meeting if possible, but we are in different terminals and I’ve just learned it will be quite difficult for us to get together in a secure area.

Just thought it fascinating the way the huge world of this extended family seemed to zoom in on Heathrow. I can also see how the fabled six degrees of separation would easily work for us–it would only take one or two steps away from the group at Heathrow on Wednesday to touch almost anyone alive right now.

We simply represent quite clearly the interconnectedness of the world.  And I think that is a means to teach us more about the hugeness of God who holds this whole creation together.  When we isolate ourselves, either by politics, gender, race, sexuality or theology or any other means, we may very well be moving away from the wholeness of the Godhead.

Perhaps the kingdom of heaven is a bit like Heathrow Airport on Wednesday, June 27, where members of this complex and extended family converge and disperse, each seeking to live faithfully to the light given, but each going in a radically different direction.

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A Sabbatical Update from London

It’s a gorgeous day here in this suburb of Carshalton, about 14 miles south of London. I always tell the Londoners that I bring the Texas sunshine with me–which is generally the case!  I understand, however, that we will probably get rain tonight and it will be considerably cooler by the weekend, with highs then in the 50’s.

Sunday is the beginning of the Queen’s Jubilee celebration here–on that day, it will mark the 60th anniversary of her coronation as Queen of England.  Although we tend to think of the monarchy as an outdated, archaic institution, there is something quite powerful about it as it gives a sense of continuity in the midst of constant change.  The family here will head to London to see the Queen’s Flotilla, where over 1000 boats will traverse the Thames in honor of this event.  My son, Jonathan, works from an office that overlooks the Thames, so we shall watch this in comfort and style!

I’ve spent the last two days touring London.  It took quite a bit longer than I had hoped to heal from my pre-sabbatical surgery. Starting this extensive travel just over two weeks after the surgery did not help, so it wasn’t until Monday that I was well enough to go.  During those tours, I heard over and over again from the tour guides something like this, “And this building was burned in a fire/bombed in WWII/destroyed by battle but was rebuilt in . . . “

Resilience–and a willingness to dig out yet one more time after yet one more time of destruction–have kept this place alive and vital.

For hours yesterday, I tramped up and down stairs, in and out of towers, limped over cobblestone streets, and read snippets of history as I explored the Tower of London.  Most of us think of it as a place of execution. People such as Anne Boleyn, wife of King Henry VIII and William Wallace, (AKA Mel Gibson in Braveheart) were indeed brought here for beheading or to be drawn and quartered.

But it was far more than that. Kings and Queens resided there, along with all those who would make the royal lives possible.  Coins were minted, food was grown, wild animals were kept for entertainment, armaments and artillery created and stored–all the things necessary for life.  AND, the people prayed.  I spent time in the 11th century chapel of St. John the Evangelist near the top of the White Tower in the middle of the whole complex. I could see the priests, royalty, and commoners coming to this space, right next to the primary royal living quarters, offering and receiving the sacraments, making their prayers, hoping for yet another day of life in their very uncertain worlds.

Nearby the Tower is the oldest church in London, All Hallows by the Tower, originally built in 675 AD!  The majority of it was destroyed in WWII, but  parts of the original building remain, and the church itself stays a strong force for Christian witness in this place.  I went to the crypt below the Sanctuary and prayed in the little chapel there, which dates from around 1280 AD.

Again, death and life–such power in knowing that.

I took a cruise on the Thames, hearing from the captain some of the history of the buildings and bridges around and over that river.  The Globe, the theater where Shakespeare presented many of his plays, has long since been burned–but a replica has been built. Twice a day, one of his many plays are presented.

Possibly the most important landmark in London is also a church, St. Paul’s Cathedral, designed by Sir Christopher Wren.  Sir Winston Churchill, that great statesman and leader of England during WWII, is said to have asked, after a night of major bombing  and much destruction by German aircraft, “Is St. Paul’s still standing?”  That symbol of faith helped keep the hope of the nation alive during that dreadful time.

Tomorrow, I hope to attend the noon Eucharist at Holy Trinity, Brompton. This is the church where a ministry called “ALPHA” began that has expanded around the world. ALPHA is a place for adults to come together around a meal, a short lecture and then discussion groups to explore the Christian faith in an open, ask-anything way.  Would love to see us implement this great ministry in Krum.

But today, on this sunny, beautiful day in London, I am writing, I am catching up on laundry (to see why that is necessary, read this part of my blog on how lightly I packed) and will go this afternoon to see my six-year-old grandson perform in a school play.  To become far more acquainted with my grandchildren (Joshua, six and Sami, four, here in London; Kate, nearly five, Wesley, two and baby Kinzie, six weeks, in NYC) has been great joy.  For me, this has been the hardest part of my calling as pastor.  As many other clergy have noted, we don’t get three day weekends, and the times that are often especially set aside as family days for many, such as Christmas and Easter, are our heaviest working times.  So I thank you, the good people of First UMC, Krum, for giving me this opportunity to spend these weeks with them, and for this time of rest, reflection and healing.

I miss you all a great deal.  I miss our worship, our conversations, our work and play together.  I ask you to stay faithful as I make the same request of myself.  We are called to be the light of Christ and light burns best and brightest when it is connected to others.

With all blessing,
Christy

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London, Sunday Evening

It’s been a cold, somewhat draggy day here.  Never past 50, overcast, damp.  Typical English weather.  I read and wrote all afternoon, and did some laundry.  The boys finally went outside to play, having exhausted their creativity inside.  No sweaters (jumpers here), no jackets, just t-shirts in this weather.  I think London children are tougher.

About 6:30, the doorbell rang and Ian, Rocio, Katie and Grace trooped in.  After their sweetness of keeping the boys last night, Adriana fixed dinner for all of us.  Roast chicken and pork, roasted sweet potatoes, white potatoes and carrots, huge fresh salad, freshly made guacamole–the usual extremely healthy feast fit for royalty that Adriana seems to be able to do with so little effort.  All for nine hungry people who enjoyed a good meal and conversation.

Rocio and I jumped on the clean-up. Other side to a meal like this:  lots of dirty pots and bowls, but we made pretty swift work of it, freeing Adriana for a few minutes.

I knew that Rocio and Ian were having trouble with their car, and it turns out it won’t even start.  Jonathan transported them back and forth (they live about 1 1/2 miles apart) and Adriana may need to take the girls to school in the morning  (their all-girls school is fairly near the boys’ prep school) or they will take the train in–just a quick hop by train for them.  No one thinks twice about helping out the other–it’s as natural as breathing for this very connected family system here.

Katie, the 10 year old, and I have become quite close.  She is teaching me “propah” British enunciation (she speaks beautifully–such things are carefully taught in the better schools here), and I am teaching her about the life of the mind and scholarly investigation and also enlightening her about teen girls in the USA.  Nice trade-off that we are both enjoying.  She’s invited me to a special presentation at her school on Thursday.  I will attend.  I’ve decided that two more grandchildren are fine with me.

Sami is having a meltdown.  Just too much happening this weekend.  School will be good for all concerned tomorrow.  Jonathan has to go to Madrid, Abu Dhabi, Berlin and some other place this week, and he’s dreading it but he’s helping get the kids to bed, will pack and be out of the house by 6:15 am.

And I continue to think about church, about garden, about fruitfulness, and wonder if I’ll ever heal from my surgery.  An ordinary day in this household.

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