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Above All, Do No Harm

The idea of “doing no harm” underlies many important service traditions.  The Hippocratic Oath, often taken by students upon graduating from medical school, reads in part:  “I will prescribe regimens for the good of my patients according to my ability and my judgment and never do harm to anyone.”

The General Rules of The United Methodist Church read:

  • First, do no harm.
  • Second, do all the good you can.
  • Third, stay in love with God.

Recently, I came across the Oath for Compassionate Service written by Robert Lupton and explained in his book, Toxic Charity. Here is part of the oath:

  • Never do for the poor what they have (or could have) the capacity to do for themselves.
  • Strive to empower the poor through employment, lending, and investing
  • Subordinate self-interests to the needs of those being served.
  •  Above all, do no harm.

Do no harm.  This is our passion. And yet, much harm has been done in the names of medicine and of religion. And, as Lupton points out, much harm has also been done in the name of charity.

I felt kicked in the stomach when I read Lupton’s work.  In this short and well-researched book, Lupton states it clearly:  much of our charitable work ends up doing terrific damage.  He notes that many of our efforts have ended up creating dependency, rather than greater self-sufficiency.

When we create dependency, we have done harm.  Most of us who give heavily (or even lightly) to charities whose stated purpose is to relieve suffering of some sort do so with the best of motives: we genuinely want to help.  What I did not understand until I read Toxic Charity was the extent of the unintended consequences of much of our charitable giving—and this includes relief efforts to impoverished and storm damaged areas.

For example, when Haiti was so badly damaged by the earthquake in January 2010, massive amounts of relief flowed into that tiny country.  Those immediate relief efforts were highly productive and very necessary.  But that was nearly three years ago.  The economy is still in chaos, little rebuilding of the infrastructure has taken place.  One possible reason:   multitudes of local workers were put out of business by the numbers of US mission teams that came to help, again, with the best of intentions.

According to Lupton, many mission trips end up being “feel-good” times for the participants, but leave the local economies in worse shape and people even less empowered and equipped to deal with the real causes of ongoing poverty and terrible suffering.

Yet we who have much do have a responsibility to give much.  But we must do so wisely and in ways that actually address the real problems underlying the suffering, much of which is indeed caused by soul-destroying poverty.

In the United States, there appear to be two primary causes of poverty.

One is situational and acute.  Crushing health care expenses, sudden loss of employment, and environmental changes can quickly destroy what had been reasonable sufficiency.  IA brief hand up and some support during the crisis can, on occasion, reverse this downward trajectory, particularly when the basic skills for productive living are intact.

Second is systemic and chronic. This is the generational poverty that has turned into deep dependence. It leaves people groups degraded and ill-equipped culturally and educationally to dig out and find more productive and dignified ways to live. Millions, even billions of dollars have been thrown at the problem.  It is not getting better.

I’m in the midst of a Sunday message series on these topics and invite you to participate and think with us for far more effective ways to handle our charitable giving.  The year-end appeals are about to fill our in-boxes and mailboxes.  Let’s learn to be wiser in our caring and smarter in our giving about this.

Above all, let us do no harm.

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I Am Rich, I Am Poor

“How can anyone get into heaven?  It must be impossible!”  That’s what Jesus’ disciples said to him after he had told a very rich young man that he had to give everything away in order to inherit eternal life.

Giving It All Away

Most of us aren’t asked to give everything away, but there certainly is invitation to give generously of the money and belongings entrusted to us by God.

But lots of people either giving nothing away at all or give scantily, as measured by percentage of wealth, not dollar amounts.

Why?  Perhaps there is a lack of charitable giving because many think they are not rich enough to give something away.  The fear: if they give to others, they will have less themselves, making themselves even poorer.

So, I started to ask myself, “What defines rich?  What defines poor?”

I am rich when I know that when one of us suffers, we all suffer. I am even richer when I know that when one of us prospers, we all prosper.  I am poor when I think I can live unconnected and untouched by the lives of others.

I am rich when I can turn on a tap and have clean drinking water come flowing out. I am even richer when I can decide if I want that water to be hot or cold.  I am poor when I have hot, cold and clean running water, but won’t contribute to help someone across the world experience the same thing.

I am rich when I have more than one set of clothes in my closet.  I am even richer when part of my daily routine consists of deciding which of those items to put on for the day.  I am poor when I have so many clothes in my closet that I decide to build or buy more closet or storage space rather than give some of them away.

I am rich when I can enjoy meals prepared by others and beverages other than that clean water from the tap.  I am even richer when I can indulge in such things for myself and my family regularly.  I am poor when I won’t give up even 10% of those indulgences in order to put some money in a charity donation box or ensure that some child has a chance to hear about the grace and love of God for them.

I am rich when I have decent shelter that provides protection from the elements.  I am even richer when that shelter has climate control that keeps the temperature exactly where I want it, even as the seasons and weather change.  I am poor when I can’t take a portion of my abundance and send it to victims of natural disasters so they might at least have a piece of canvas or plastic over their heads.

I am rich when I have a phone that I can take me with I anywhere I go and stay in touch with anyone I want whenever I want.  I am even richer when I can use that phone to chat face to face with others, watch movies and keep my social media contacts updated. I am poor when I spend so much on my phone and other electronics and what I believe are necessities of modern life that I am in such debt that I don’t even know how good I have it.

I am rich when I know that the material things I enjoy are temporary and fleeting.  I am even richer when I contemplate eternity in total union with God, whose very nature sings of extravagant generosity.  I am poor when my material and financial possessions own and imprison me with their constant neediness for attention and replacement. I am destitute when these material things take the place of God.

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